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A MOM'S PERSPECTIVE

Teaching through tragedy may help save kids

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Lately I worry about my children’s health and wellbeing -- most of all, their mental health.

We have talked and talked and talked some more about how important it is to talk about their feelings.

In these tough times, we want them to know they can come to us or anyone they’re comfortable talking with.

I have stayed open and honest and told them of my struggles with depression, as well as discussing their Dad’s battle with PTSD.

We recently got hit close to home with this and how serious this pandemic can affect one’s mental health.

My cousin took his own life. And it was more than a shock.

He was who I call the Robin Williams of our family.

I watched so many videos his family posted day after day of him laughing, joking and always being the life of the party.

It was unexpected and no one saw it coming, especially his parents.

See, most of us know our kids and can see when they are struggling. But so often when suicide is involved, no one sees the signs.

It’s hard not to blame ourselves or feel like maybe -- just maybe -- we could have done something to help with the hurt.

After hearing of his passing, I sat with my kids again to have the same conversation we’ve had over and over.

I let them watch videos from his YouTube channel, and we all sat and laughed until we cried.

I told them how his kindness, laughter and all-over beautiful personality not only made people laugh but brought them joy in such a strange time.

I think it’s safe to say COVID-19 has brought much uncertainty, and as parents and human beings, we’re all trying to just figure out what’s normal.

I can say this: Kindness goes a long way.

Make a funny video, laugh with your kids, love them extra on the hard days, pay for the person’s coffee behind you, tip your server extra and try daily to make someone smile.

Especially your loved ones.

In a world that can get so dark, do what’s kind even though it may not be easy.

#BeANicho

Rest easy to my cousin, Nicolas: Jan. 19, 1995-Sept. 26, 2020

Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255

Tova Gennrich handles legal and classified advertisements for The Las Cruces Bulletin. She can be reached at tova@lascrucesbulletin.com.

Tova Gennrich

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